Anal vibrators are a pleasing and different way to heighten a sexual experience. If you’ve been curious about what an anal vibrator feels like, you might have wondered if both men and women can use anal vibrators. For men, the feeling is intensified because an anal vibrator massages the prostate, a highly erogenous zone in male anatomy. Women can feel pleasure from anal stimulation because the interior of the anus is relatively close to the female G-spot. However, not all women will enjoy backdoor penetration – but you’ll never know unless you try, right?
Anal vibrators come in a variety of shapes, sizes and textures. If you’re just starting out, you’ll want a small, thin version called an anal probe. These battery-powered vibrators are about the size of your finger and provide a good introduction to anal toys. Because the anus is not naturally lubricated, you’ll want to use a generous amount of water-based lubricant both inside and on the toy itself. You may want to first try anal vibrator insertion with the vibrator turned off, just to let your body adjust to this new feeling. Whether you are trying this for the first time on yourself or your partner, the key is to advance gently and slowly. Listen to yourself or your partner, and pull back if the sensation is too painful. Foreplay or prior sexual stimulation helps you or your partner to relax the muscles, and anal insertion is easier when the receiver is relaxed.
If you want to try the feeling of “fullness,” a butt plug will provide it. Again, start off small with a smooth plug. Butt plugs can resemble traditional dildos, but are generally smaller and have a flared base (so your toy doesn’t get stuck when your anus muscles contract). Some will pulsate, rotate and generally provide rougher stimulation, which as a beginner will turn you off to anal adventures. Leave the high-tech gadgets for the more experienced, and start with something less intimidating. One advantage of a butt plug is that it will stay in place during sex, female or male, providing hands-free anal stimulation during intercourse. Some will enjoy the process of insertion more while others may favor the sensation of feeling the anal vibrator moving in and out.
Vibrating anal beads are an amazing way to intensify an orgasm, male or female. They are a string of about five or six vibrating beads (some progress in size from smaller to larger) which are inserted into the anus before sex or masturbation. A common practice is to remove the beads slowly, one by one, as you begin to feel yourself reaching orgasm. The vibrating beads will stimulate additional, sexually sensitive nerves, adding to the intensity of your climax.
Ultimately, it’s up to you to choose the best anal vibrators for your needs. If you plan to engage in anal play with a partner, make sure you know his or her desires and boundaries. If possible, you should shop for an anal vibrator together.
Cleanliness is extremely important to anal sexual experiences. Whenever possible, place a condom over your toy to prevent bacteria from contaminating it. Here is an excellent guide to cleaning and caring for your anal toys.
You should also be aware of the dangers of anal vibrators. They are quite similar to the dangers of anal sex with a partner. It is possible to damage your rectal lining with tears if you haven’t used enough lubricant. Rectal prolapse is unlikely, but possible. Rectal prolapse is a weakening of the sphincter muscle that can cause anal incontinence. Again, this only occurs with frequent and prolonged anal vibrator use. You should not use anal vibrators if you have hemorrhoids or fissures in your anus. If you are concerned about hurting yourself, talk to your doctor. It might be embarrassing, but it’s worth it to get the information you need to have healthy, safe play with an anal vibrator.
Good luck on your new adventures – you never know what pleasures might be waiting for you just around the corner.