Before the advent of Facebook and other social utility sites, all relationships had two basic dimensions: in-person or over-the-phone communication. It was simple, and though AOL Instant Messenger connected us online, there were no real rules to follow. There wasn’t a need for rules in that era, but with Facebook’s insane popularity over the years, [...]

New year, new decade, new times – makes us want to have new selves. Again I return to my friend Ambrose Bierce, who affirms that there is in fact nothing new under the sun, but there are plenty of old things we don’t know about yet. And by old things I mean, like, things that [...]

Do straight men like anal toys? In fact, they do. My guess is that most men would like it if they tried it – but a lot of them won’t try it, because “OMG it might make me gay.” So if you’re a man who likes women, why would having your prostate stimulated make you [...]

Here’s what I said when I first saw the LELO Nea: “Awww, it’s a vibrator for little people! How thoughtful.” Like from the pictures, you wouldn’t know how small it is, which is precisely 3” by 4” by 2”. Yeah, it says that on the website, but I’m not a mathematically visual person. Clearly many [...]

Not just for BDSM enthusiasts anymore, metal sex toys are now throwing their weight around with couples (and singles) who don’t enjoy hurting themselves or others. Unlike other sex toys, made of silicone, rubber, “jelly” and plastic, a metal toy has no give whatsoever and is much heavier than anything else you’re used to. Precious metal [...]