Getting close to your boyfriend can be a lot of fun. Getting him in the mood, however, may be another story, which is why tickling can be so much fun. There’s a lot of fun to be had with tickling, especially the sensations from the body and the whoop of laughter that usually ensues. How do you get him to tickle you? Well, that’s actually much easier than you think.
Saying things such as “I like being tickled” may not be the way to get your desires across. He may just think, “Okay,” and move past your small request. There’s more to it. You have to show him and demonstrate the first few times so that he sees what happens. It’s important to remember that tickling is contagious and silly. It sometimes leads to more tickling and sometimes leads to other things, so be careful what you wish for. Tickling can be highly addictive, but make sure you use it for fun and not torture (yes, there really is such thing as tickle torture).
Getting tickled is just plain good old fun. It causes your body to squirm and laugh out of control. In order to get your boyfriend to tickle, you’ll usually have to start the tickling. Even if he doesn’t like to be tickled, he’ll feel the need to tickle you back. Even if it is just to defend himself.
How to tickle someone is easy. It can start virtually anywhere on the body, but there are key areas to start with. You can either go to the bottom of the feet, behind the knees, under the arms, or behind the neck. Tickling is done with the fingertips, and if you’ve got them, even your fingernails. Once your boyfriend learns that you like to be tickled, you can even suggest feathers and other items to be tickled with.
You can either do a fun tickle or a teasing tickle. What’s the difference? A fun tickle is when you run your fingers up and down the area of choice quickly. Giggling while you tickle helps to break any potential mood barriers down as well. Then, there’s the teasing tickle, where you may whisper things and move your fingers much more slowly. Either tickle is acceptable, it all leads to what the ultimate goal of the tickling is.
Even though tickling is an involuntary twitch of the body, you can force the body to perform the function. It is a pleasurable feeling to be enjoyed over and over again. When your boyfriend learns that you like to be tickled and how much you enjoy it, you’ll never have to ask him again. A simple tickle to him will let him know that you want to be tickled, too, and the fun begins.