With the holidays approaching faster than even I care to admit, it’s time to start thinking about a unique gift for your girlfriend or wife. Something that says “I cherish you, your body and our sex life.” Depending on your girl, this could be a tricky endeavor for good-intentioned you. You don’t want to choose a sexy gift that says “I’m bored in the bedroom and I want to get freaky.” Nor do you want a gift that says “Here’s a new way for you to pleasure me.” After all, it’s a gift for her, not a free pass for you! So I’ve put together a handy little list of suggestions to help you shop erotic. These are guaranteed to spark her interest and have her thanking you in ways that are fun for everyone.
- Mood enhancement can inspire both of you to new levels of intimacy. Consider the Leau a Deux Bath Set from the Coleccion Deluxe by Bijoux Indiscrets. This sultry, European-imported set of fragrant bath gel, bubble bath, candles and a romantic music disc comes in a beautiful black and white gift tin, perfect for the holidays. Let her wash the stressful day away and embrace the evening – the two of you can enjoy a romantic bath together, a gift your girl is guaranteed to love.
- The We Vibe is one of the most innovative sex toys on the market today. This amazing vibrator is the first of its kind that can be worn while making love. Comfortable, durable and hands-free, the We-Vibe is perfect for playing by herself or with you. How fun for her to feel her vibrator and you inside of her at the same time! This particular model has won a variety of awards for its unique design, so I am definitely not the only one who can vouch for the awesome pleasure of the We Vibe II.
- The Kama Sutra is the oldest sex text, as relevant today as it was in ancient India. Bring a little bit of magic to the bedroom with the Kama Sutra Bedside Gift Box. Start with the sensual feather and honey dust (edible!) to tickle her fancy. Then choose from vanilla massage cream, original oil of love or lubricating love liquid – or use all three for a smooth, full-body sensation. What happens next is up to you…

- If she enjoys clitoral stimulation, the LELO Lily vibrator is what you need. This gorgeous, Swiss-made vibrator is perfectly crafted to rest on her clitoris for amazing sensations. You can choose from 27 (!) different speeds, it’s amazingly quiet, rechargeable and hypoallergenic. Lily is an excellent choice for solitary play or bedroom fun with the two of you.
- If your girl is a music lover, you’ll want to become familiar with OhMiBod. This company makes a sleek vibrator that plugs into not only her iPod, but also into computer jacks, portable DVD players, even an electric guitar. This innovative piece vibrates with the beat and rhythm of her favorite music, and when she adjusts the volume, the vibrations become quieter or more intense – it all depends on where she wants to go. Even better than the fact that this awesome vibrator exists, it also comes in perfectly coordinated gift sets. Try the weekender – it comes with an OhMiBod vibrator, heart-shaped candle, Sliquid Silk Lube and Afterglow multi-pack toy wipes. Give a rockin good time with this one!
Knowledge is power! Go forth and find that perfect intimate gift – happy holidays, indeed.

