It’s human nature to want to pleasure your partner to the best of your ability. I’m constantly concerned about if he’s enjoying himself, if I look sexy enough, or if I’m even doing it right…when really the best sex happens when both of us are uninhibited and can just let go. If you’re feeling a little bit reserved these days, here are some sexy ideas to help loosen you up so you can “let go” and enjoy the romance.
A warm bubble bath with candle light is PB&J romance. Baths can be the answer to any stressful day, and it’s twice as great when you have your partner with you to unwind. The warm water relaxes those tired muscles and goodness knows that includes our sex muscles. If you’re feeling a little adventurous, try using a vibrator in the water. It’s a very unique sensation that is definitely something to experience–just remember to make sure that vibrator is waterproof!
I’m a constant advocate for yoga. It opens the mind, soul, and body, not to mention the obvious health benefits like weight loss, body toning, and increase in flexibility. Introduce your partner to the benefits of yoga by planning a private yoga session with a trained instructor. There are yoga studios just about everywhere now, and some will even come right to your home! Yoga will help bring the two of you together spiritually and you might begin to notice you’re feeling a little more frisky and playful. Yoga helps to release endorphins which improve your mood, and quite often, your sex drive. With an increased sex drive, confidence, and flexibility, the romance will blossom.
Now that you’re doing yoga, you’re feeling much more confident in your physique. If you want to drive your partner crazy, snap a few sexy photos on your cell phone and text it to him. He’ll be surprised and so incredibly turned on. A picture’s worth a thousand words, and your naked body is priceless.
“Sexting” is the new thing. Send him a few naughty words about how you’re waiting for him and can’t wait to jump him the minute he walks in the door. If you want to take that sexy teasing one step further, try your hand at Literotica. Write him a sexy tale of a fantasy you have, even if it’s just a few words. It’s a way to communicate if there’s something you’d like to try without having to say the words in person–Plus, this is about the sexiest thing you could do. He’ll be fantasizing about you fantasizing and then you writing it and then actually fulfilling that fantasy for you. Play around with it, talk naughty, tease him, tease yourself. This will bring you closer together and further enhance your romance.
Try any of these recipes for a sexy night–you can practically taste the spicy results & sweet rewards.